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Hitting & Kicking
Hands and feet talk when words can't.
Spot the clue: Hitting & Kicking
| The clue you see | What it means | Do tonight |
|---|---|---|
| Hits when told "no" | "No" landed like a wall, not a boundary. | Hold the limit. Say it once, calmly. |
| Kicks during diaper or clothes changes | Feels trapped or rushed. | Slow down. Offer two choices. |
| Hits a sibling, then smiles | Testing what happens — or wants a reaction. | Stay flat. Calm body, boring face, safe hands. |
| Hits when hungry or tired | Body needs came first. | Feed and rest before you correct. |
| Hits self when upset | The feeling has nowhere safe to go. | Block gently. Hand them a pillow to squeeze. |
Then do Monae's 3 steps: 1. Stop ✋ 2. Breathe 🌬️ 3. Say what I need 🗣️
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