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Lying & Sneaking

A lie is a wish or a worry in disguise.

Spot the clue: Lying & Sneaking

The clue you seeWhat it meansDo tonight
Lies with chocolate still on their faceWishful thinking beats reality.Don't set the trap. "I see the wrapper. Let's fix it."
Lies to avoid getting in troubleThe punishment feels scarier than the truth.Thank honesty out loud, even when the truth is bad.
Tells huge made-up storiesTesting imagination — or wanting to feel important."What a story! Want to write it down together?"
Blames a sibling or the dogShame is too heavy to hold alone.Lower the heat: "Accidents happen. What now?"
Sneaks things at night or from your bagAn impulse won before their brakes kicked in.Keep temptations out of reach. Practice asking instead.

Then do Monae's 3 steps: 1. Stop ✋ 2. Breathe 🌬️ 3. Say what I need 🗣️

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