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Whining & Nagging
Whining is a need wearing an annoying outfit.
Spot the clue: Whining & Nagging
| The clue you see | What it means | Do tonight |
|---|---|---|
| Whines for things they can do themselves | Wants to feel little and cared for. | Fill the cup first: five minutes of snuggle time. |
| Whines more when you're on the phone | Lost your eyes, so they raised their volume. | Touch their hand. Acknowledge. Finish your call. |
| Asks 10 times for the same thing | The first answer didn't feel final — or heard. | Answer once, clearly. Then: "Asked and answered." |
| Whines only with you, not other adults | You are the safe place. It's a compliment. | Calm voice request: "Try that in your strong voice." |
| Whines at the same time every day | Hungry, tired, or a hard transition is coming. | Feed and rest before the witching hour hits. |
Then do Monae's 3 steps: 1. Stop ✋ 2. Breathe 🌬️ 3. Say what I need 🗣️
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