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Yelling & Screaming

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Spot the clue: Yelling & Screaming

The clue you seeWhat it meansDo tonight
Screams "no" at simple requestsThe request felt too big or too sudden.Shrink the ask. One step at a time.
Yells back when you yellYour volume became the model.Drop your voice low. Low voice, calm kid.
Screams when it's time to stop playingThe ending came with no warning.Give a 5-minute and a 2-minute warning.
Yells at a sibling over small thingsNeeds attention or feels it's unfair.Name the feeling first: "That felt unfair."
Screams then criesThe feeling was too big for words.Stay close. Words come after calm.

Then do Monae's 3 steps: 1. Stop ✋ 2. Breathe 🌬️ 3. Say what I need 🗣️

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