Storms, tornadoes, and disasters: what to do for your child
Loud sirens and sudden changes hit hard for kids with big feelings, ADHD, or autism. Here are the steps for before, during, and after — in plain words you can use tonight.
Any calm day
Before the storm
Kids do better with a storm plan they have already practiced. Do this on a normal day, not during a warning.
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Step 1 — Pick your safe spot and show it
Walk your child to the room you will use — a small inside room, no windows. Sit in it for two minutes today so it is not new later.
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Step 2 — Pack a calm bag, not just a go bag
Water, snacks, meds, chargers, copies of the IEP and any medical papers. Then add the calm items: headphones, a weighted or soft blanket, a fidget, a comfort toy, a flashlight your child can hold.
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Step 3 — Write one storm script and read it out loud
Say: "If the siren goes off, we go to the safe spot. I stay with you the whole time. It is loud, and we are safe." Same words every time.
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Step 4 — Practice it once, like a game
Set a timer. Walk to the safe spot together. Praise the walk, not the feeling. Two minutes is enough.
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Step 5 — Make an out-of-town contact card
One name and number on paper in your child's pocket or bag. Phones die. Paper does not.
The 5-minute go bag
Pack it once on a calm day. Keep it by the door.
Keep them safe
- Medications (7 days) and a written list of doses
- Water and 2 days of familiar snacks your child will actually eat
- Flashlight and spare batteries
- Phone charger and a battery pack
- Copy of IDs, insurance card, and any medical papers
Keep them calm
- Noise-reducing headphones or ear covers
- Comfort item — blanket, stuffed animal, or hoodie that smells like home
- Two fidgets and one quiet activity (cards, notebook, crayons)
- A snack that is the same brand and shape every time
- Wipes and a change of clothes (stress accidents happen)
Keep your paper trail
- Copy of the IEP, 504, or BIP
- Doctor and therapist names and numbers on paper
- Out-of-town contact card in your child's pocket
- A small notebook to write what you see each day
Exact words to say
When the warning goes off
- “We are going to the safe spot now.”
- “I stay with you the whole time.”
- “It is loud. We are safe.”
When they are screaming or frozen
- “I'm right here.”
- “Hold my hand. Squeeze three times.”
- “You don't have to talk.”
The next day, when the questions start
- “That storm was loud and scary.”
- “We went to the safe spot and we stayed together.”
- “If it happens again, we do the same thing.”
Email to the school after a disaster
- “Hi — our family was affected by the storm on [date].”
- “At home I am seeing [sleep trouble / meltdowns / clinging / not eating].”
- “Can you tell me what you are seeing at school this week?”
- “I would like to talk about short-term supports while we get back to routine.”
In an emergency, follow local officials and call 911 first. Bright Steps provides parent support and educational planning tools only and does not replace professional educational, medical, or legal advice.
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