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Airports & Flights

Lines, strangers, loud speakers, pressure changes. Airports are a sensory bomb. Plan for it.

Step 1 — Before you go

  1. 1Request TSA Cares assistance 72 hours before your flight — they walk you through security.
  2. 2Get a Sunflower Lanyard (free) — signals hidden disability to staff without explaining.
  3. 3Print a visual boarding schedule: car → security → gate → plane → seat.
  4. 4Charge headphones, tablet, and a backup battery the night before.
  5. 5Pack a "comfort bag": snacks, chewy, fidget, extra clothes, wipes, small blanket.

Step 2 — During the moment

  1. 1Board early — most airlines allow families with disabilities to pre-board (just ask).
  2. 2Ear protection on before you enter the terminal, not after the meltdown.
  3. 3Chewy snack + water bottle during takeoff and landing (helps ear pressure).
  4. 4Get up and walk every hour on long flights — bathroom trip counts.
  5. 5If a meltdown starts, dim the phone, dim your voice. Cover them with the small blanket.

Safety protectors — what to watch for

  1. 1Write your phone # on their wrist AND put an AirTag or GPS tracker in their shoe or backpack.
  2. 2Photo of your child every morning of travel.
  3. 3Teach them: "If you get lost, find a person with a badge." Practice.
  4. 4Never let a stranger — even in uniform — take your child out of your sight.
  5. 5Know where the family bathroom and quiet room are (many airports have sensory rooms now).

Red flags — act now

  1. 1Child says a specific TSA agent "touched them" or made them uncomfortable — you can request a private screening or a supervisor. Always.
  2. 2Anyone offering to "help you skip the line" and take your child ahead. Never.
  3. 3Severe ear pain that doesn't ease after landing = urgent care within 24h.

Say this out loud

""This is a lot. I know. Headphones on, hand in mine, eyes on the floor tiles. We just need to get to the gate. I've got you.""

In a crisis, call or text 988 (US Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or your local emergency line. For a lost child in a public venue: find the nearest staff badge and give your child's photo and today's outfit.

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