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Day 28 — When They Say 'I Can'T'
Worn out tonight? This one's for the caregiver who needs a little hope.
A kind word for tonight
The first try wasn't easy, and they pushed the work away. They said, 'I cannot do it,' and refused to try today. I nearly pushed them harder, but the goal may have been too wide. I'll show one smaller step and let them practice by my side.
Before we stress, let's assess
Before we stress, let's assess. A smaller step can build confidence and reduce overwhelm.
Step 1. Tonight’s reset
STOP: pause.
BREATHE: slow it down.
SAY WHAT THEY NEED: "I'll show you one. We'll try one together."
Step 2. I DO → WE DO → YOU DO
I DO: model it.
WE DO: practice together.
YOU DO: try with support.
Step 3. One small action
Model the first step, then support one attempt.
Tomorrow, we can practice again. Spot the clue. Know what to do. We made it through the day.
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