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Day 33 — The Hair-Washing Battle
It's almost bedtime, and some of us are still carrying the whole day on our shoulders.
A kind word for tonight
The water touched their forehead; they pulled away in fright. I wanted to get it finished, but it didn't feel all right. Some sounds and touch sensations can be harder than they seem. We'll change the steps and make a gentler washing routine.
Before we stress, let's assess
Before we stress, let's assess. Sensory needs may affect hygiene routines; support works better than forcing.
Step 1. Tonight’s reset
STOP: pause.
BREATHE: slow it down.
SAY WHAT THEY NEED: "Let's try a washcloth and go slowly."
Step 2. I DO → WE DO → YOU DO
I DO: model it.
WE DO: practice together.
YOU DO: try with support.
Step 3. One small action
Ask what part feels uncomfortable and adjust it.
Tomorrow, we can practice again. Spot the clue. Know what to do. We made it through the day.
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