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The Behavior Decoder

Four clues. Every behavior is saying one of them.

The Behavior Decoder

  1. "Look at me." — attention. Give it before the behavior, not after.
  2. "Get me out of this." — escape. Shrink the task, keep the ask.
  3. "I want that." — the thing. Name when they can have it.
  4. "My body feels bad." — sensory or tired or hungry. Fix the body first.

Spot the clue, know what to do. Write down the 10 minutes before — that's where the clue lives.

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